LIVE UNAPOLOGETICALLY
OUT LOUD
Radically inclusive coaching for LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and folks ready to choose aligned love and life.
PART COACH - PART COMPASS
Hi! I’m Ray (they/them), your Confidence Coming Out Coach.
Part coach, part compass. I’m Ray (they/them), a Confidence Coming Out Coach. My mission is simple: I help people reveal their confidence and remember their authentic selves — by modeling how to find and align with their inner compass.
My approach blends lived queer/poly experience with embodied, evidence‑informed tools. I specialize in Integrated Attachment Style awareness, Somatic Agreement/Consent Practices, and Nonviolent Communication skills. You’ll feel safe, seen, and sovereign as we co‑create new patterns: regulating your nervous system, reframing self‑talk, and practicing consent‑based communication.
WORK WITH ME
From individual coaching to teams and large audiences, Ray fosters spaces where people can exhale and belong.
With a steady pace, clear boundaries, and consent-centered practice, confidence becomes something you can rely on - in your life, your teams, and your events.
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IN THEIR OWN WORDS
Ray expands horizons by opening minds and hearts. Anyone who encounters Ray as a coach is left a better person
Catherine M Essik -
Whistle Pig Mountain
Lawn Care & Landscaping
Working with Ray has given me tools to move forward and realization that I am not alone; there is someone there whenever I need positive support, guidance or just a gentle kick in the bum.
Anna Murfin - Artist
Ray is one of the most authentic, self-aware and genuine people ... Always easy to talk to, Ray offers fresh perspective, guidance, original insight and wisdom acquired from a myriad of life experiences.
Lisa Salerno - Artist
